We are only here once, so most of us want to live our lives to the best we can, that means finding the right partner for us. If anyone would have ever told me that finding a partner to match your own values, to laugh at the same things as you, to enjoy the same pastimes, to love you as you want to be loved and to have the same aspirations in life as you, id never have believed how difficult it could be. With age I guess I am starting to feel that this is harder than any qualification I have taken or any task I*ve been set - I know there has to be compromises’ along the way but this seems more like a needle in a haystack job than anything...... again the odds are against me, which is why I tried this.... Description of me - genuine, honest, loves travel, likes to laugh, thoughtful, wants to find some friends and if that leads to a special woman then fantastic. To find a woman that I can connect with mentally, to do spontaneous things with, to have fun, laugh, smile and just have a great time together. To have some romance and some old fashion values. To laugh, and to smile, walk and hold hands and stop for a tender kiss. Although I have said all of these things, to find a lady is a want more than a need. I am not a man that has to have a woman - for me it would be nice to enhance my life with a person that makes me feel special and very lucky. ps if this is interesting please send a message